
"I would never say I worked at Facebook," said one 30-year-old software engineer who left the company last year to pursue an alternative career. Instead, at dinner parties he would give purposefully vague responses and change the subject. "There's this song and dance you learn to play because people are quick to judge." [...]
"We have this habit of highlighting and celebrating brilliant assholes like Steve Jobs and Travis Kalanick, when the reality is they are awful human beings," said Greg, head of technology at e-commerce startup Brandless, adding that it is women and people of colour who tend to bear the brunt of their behaviour. [...]
Some of this behaviour stems from the hubris that positions profit-seeking corporations as benevolent forces in the world.
"You are selling ads, you're not really making the world a better place," noted the former Facebooker. "But most people drank the Kool-aid."
It's a view echoed by one current Googler in her 20s, who is embarrassed by tech companies' cluelessness about their reputation outside of the Silicon Valley bubble.
"Internally I don't think they have a good read on how they're perceived," she said, citing the backlash after it was discovered that ads were appearing around videos promoting extremist views on YouTube or the investigation into possible Russian interference in the US election, including buying ads on Google, Facebook and Twitter.
"[Googlers] will say 'why are the papers making a big deal out of this, I don't get it'. Are you fucking joking? These people don't realise the scale of what they are doing," she said.
"Some of these folks aren't the most socially gifted people and therefore suddenly having a culture encouraging this experience for them bleeds into everything, giving them a sense of self-importance and entitlement. It's effectively like dealing with children all the time," Greg said, referencing his time at Dropbox when people would "fly around the office on these stupid scooters and skateboards". [...]
All of this feeds into the perception that techies are, according to the former Facebooker, "pod people" who aren't part of the community.
"You wake up, get the shuttle bus, go to the bubble of campus and order food via an app when you get home. You are not a citizen, just a bizarre leech who makes money," he explained.
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